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How the Mighty Churches Fall

December 7, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Thankfully, I learned, as did those around me, that gimmicks almost never worked. Only when we went back to caring for people, disciplining teachable leaders, introducing people to Jesus, and worshipping with a hearty spirit did things get back on track.

Gordon MacDonald

I read a really great article inspired by the book How the Mighty Fall by Jim Collins which I haven’t had the pleasure to read just yet.  I’ve heard it’s really good (no Great!). I felt this article would be worth sharing as it gets to some core problems that all of us in churches must keenly be aware of.

The article entitled How Mighty Churches Fall can be seen here.

The five major bullets that correspond to the book are…

  • Hubris born of success
  • Undisciplined pursuit of more
  • Denial of risk and peril
  • Grasping for salvation
  • Capitulation to irrelevance or death

Just pondering these bullet points makes me want to go buy the book right now. How many of us are found wanting on this inventory? It’s time to get back to momentum building of the flywheel principle from Good to Great.

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Don’t Give Up – The Story is not Over Yet.

November 10, 2009 · 2 Comments

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

Paul to the Galatians (6:9)

Life discourages. Expectations fail. Disappointments rise. Sometimes we get tired, disoriented, maybe even a little nauseous and we want the ride to stop so we can get off. It seems the contradiction that we pay lots of money to ride roller coasters and watch movies for entertainment yet when our life resembles one we don’t think it’s fun. We like to control our terror, manage our excitement and in the end basically live a predictable life. Our illusion of control must be humorous to God, no maybe it’s tragic. In our blind arrogance we express our bold disappointment. Like the irony of clay speaking harshly to the potter, “I’m not thrilled with the changes you are making.” When our lives are the ones affected thoughts we previously held so clearly seem to get lost in the fog.  We discover out of the haze of crisis that we have in fact not become Job, but Job’s friends or maybe even worse, Job’s wife. Critical, judgmental, self-righteous instead of humble, patient and obedient.

Someone who cares for my wife and I greatly took us to dinner and afterward prayed for us and during his prayer quoted the above verse about not giving up. I could feel the encouragement well up within me like a root beer float foaming up and over the top of the glass. The rough times are not here to stay. We need to keep walking through the valley because God’s not done with us yet.

So take heart.

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What am I holding on to?

October 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

There is this guy.
I LOVE what he is doing.
I want to be a part of that thing he is doing.
I have told him I would do anything for him and his project.
I need to call him up today and tell him I am smoking crack.
In this season of life there is no way I am going to be able to be anything more than a royal disappointment to him and his vision.
I need to give up.
And sometimes giving up is more noble than fighting like crazy to hang on.

And you need to give up too.
What do you need to let go of that you are fighting like hell to hang on to?
Los

I read this on Carlos Whitaker’s blog this morning and it caused me to think. What am I holding on to? In this time of transition where I cannot possibly do all the things I have done, what am I holding on to, that if I let go, someone else could pick it up and possibly do an even better job? It’s interesting how easily it is to identify “controlling tendencies” in others but very difficult to identify in ourselves. I hide my controlling nature…or maybe I should say I try to hide it. Yet what if I lived life with more open hands, remembering that I’m really not “in control” at all.

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Responding to God’s Call

September 5, 2009 · 2 Comments

This morning I read about God’s call of Moses during the Burning Bush incident. It stirred up a lot of thoughts about God’s call and our response. In the past few years I have heard people share their stories of how God has done incredible things in their lives. Stories by Francis Chan, Rick Warren, Steven Furtick, Perry Noble and countless others have inspired me beyond belief. Usually my first response is awe. “Wow, that is amazing!” But as time has gone on I have begun to see a pattern these men clearly heard from God and then they simply began to do what God had called them to do. I know, simple isn’t it? Yet the more I have read and the more I have studied Scripture if there was ever a “key” that would be it. Pray like crazy until you hear from God, and then without delay go and do what he has told you to do. These men are no more educated, no more “spiritual”, no more gifted than I am, the only difference is they heard from God and obeyed.

This is not to say they weren’t worried, scared or confused at times but they still followed God, anyway. It wasn’t that they didn’t experience adversity, tests and trials, they did but they followed God, anyway. It wasn’t that they didn’t face discouraging words from friends, family, fellow ministers, who, maybe not intentionally, were giving voice to the status quo. No, they experienced all those things but they believed the call of God even when no one else could see it. They followed God even when it led them away from what they were comfortable with, what they were used to. Following the voice of God became their obsession.

Think about it. What if Abraham’s family had convinced him that he shouldn’t leave Ur? What if they had convinced him to play it safe and stick with what was known, comfortable, traditional who would be the father of the faithful?  Often today when we refer to someone being faithful it many times means that a person is consistent rather than full of faith. We use it to refer to the saint who never misses church, “Boy they sure are faithful” even if they haven’t used an ounce of faith to live their life in a very long time. We have confused being “good at routine”, or “rule following” for a faith filled life.  No faithfulness refers to someone who is full of faith and that faith leads to action in response to the call of God on their lives. This action is often not a repeat of something that was done before but instead a call to do something that has never been done before. Think about it, Noah, wasn’t born into a long line of boat builders who finally perfected their craft. No, he was the first.  God’s design and plan is full of firsts, man’s design and plan is full of repeats and circles.

In my upbringing we were conditioned to seek the call of God and that is a good thing. What I didn’t’ hear much about was how that when you receive a call of God, people start hating you, becoming jealous of you, you may have to leave your family, experience being ostracized. Basically the call of God does all but ruin your life. God seems to destroy what you know so you can be ready for what is unknown. God can’t give us anything new if we are hanging on with clinched fists to what we have. Scripturally the call of God is far from predictable. So when I read Moses’ response to God’s call things got a bit more human. In Exodus 4:13-14 “But Moses said, ‘Pardon your servant Lord. Please send someone else.” Then the Lord’s anger burned against Moses…” Moses tells God, “No thank you! I’d rather stay here where I’m comfortable, where life is predictable. Pick some other sap.” I guess maybe Moses better understood the consequences of God’s call. He was honest, God I like my life do I have to?

Obviously, we all know the response should always be “Yes, Lord!” But words are cheap, actions are another thing altogether. I’m feeling conviction even as I write this, how many times have I said “Yes, Lord!” but my actions said something totally different, my actions spoke loud and clear that my personal comfort was far more important that God’s plan for my life.

I remember almost eight years ago I was praying, fasting and desperately crying out to God for direction. I needed to have a clear word I felt I was experiencing divine discontent where something bigger was forcing me from the comfort zone I had become accustomed to. I can remember praying God I’m willing to go wherever you want. I’ll sell everything I own to follow your call. As clear as day I saw whether in a vision or a dream a little store front filled with red chairs, I saw Rob Nigro and a keyboard setup with no one to play it and I felt God say to me, “Sam, you are to go help Rob personally and Kerri will help with the music.” Being the activator that I am in less than 5 minutes I called Pastor Rob on the cell phone and asked him a question. “Pastor Rob have you been praying about anything?” He said instantly, “Brother Sam, I’ve been praying for someone to help me and someone to help with our music.” I needed nothing else. God had called and I wanted to answer.

I haven’t looked back, but to say that it has been easy would be a far cry from the truth. People I respect to this day asked questions that continue to confuse me. I had others offer all kinds of reasons why I shouldn’t do what I knew God was calling me to. I would be lying if I told you that we have felt overwhelming support for our decision. I realize that for everyone else the call of God must seem foreign and strange because God isn’t calling them to do that he’s calling you. I’m sure Abraham didn’t broadcast to Sarah his plan to follow God and sacrifice his son Isaac. If he had I’m sure there would have been some good questions. What precedent do you have Abraham for doing that?  What possible good could come of that?

So here is my point. First we must do a better job of educating our youngsters on what the call of God might entail for them. Be careful what you ask for. I assure you my life would have been a lot easier had I not been chosen. Yet on the flip side I wouldn’t trade my God-filled life for anything. Second we must show a lot more respect to those who have been chosen and called by God. Their path won’t be a normal or easy to follow, but we need people to answer these calls. What if Moses had said no? There were a couple of million Israelites that had been waiting 430 years for deliverance depending on him. We need more Joseph’s who are willing to stand by their Mary’s while she tells the world she’s bearing a child whose father is the Holy Spirit. Try pulling that off today. “Guys, listen up! God is doing something really special in my life, I’m pregnant.” Humanly this is a ridiculous story on every level and yet I’ve become convinced that is what the call of God always looks like. Nonetheless Joseph stood there and said, “I don’t know what’s going on, but I believe you. I believe in your call so you Go Girl!” How would this story have gone down if Joseph had always been suspicious, jealous, and wondering who the real father was. No he had to accept and believe the call just as much for this story to work out. So we need both Marys who receives the call and the Josephs who support those who are called.

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Avoiding Death by Nostalgia

September 4, 2009 · 1 Comment

I just had the opportunity to read a very thought provoking article critiquing the Southern Baptist Convention entitled Avoiding Death by Nostalgia. It would appear to me that if some of the initials were changed it might be a critique of my denominational affiliation. In many ways it seems we are experiencing a generational/kingdom shift rather than a particular denominational shift. I’ve decided to include a few quotes and make some brief commentary.

Scripture above denomination.

Scripture above tradition.

Scripture above custom.

Scripture above culture and habit.

Scripture above “the way Southern Baptists have always done it.”

Scripture above Southern Baptist ways of justifying what Southern Baptists do.

I think this is huge. Since in reality I hold a very high view of Scripture and desire it to dictate all I do. I attempt to read it daily and having read it through quite a few times now, I realize you are up a creek without a paddle to try to make it say things it doesn’t because that will only backfire on you. We must face that much of what we do is our own preference and is not Scriptural at all.

How strange is it that younger SBCers will go all over the country to multiple conferences about the Gospel, serious theology, healthy churches and church planting, but will avoid denominational meetings whenever possible?

I will confess that the more I read by a broad range of authors and have experienced the relevant and crucial material at conferences like Catalyst, I feel much the same. I have sat in meetings where I really questioned whether or not God would be pleased as to how I had spent my time. First and Seconding the waving of minutes being read is just not that important. Sorry that might be harsh.

A new generation of leaders wants unity around the Gospel, not around the denomination. They want the structures we support to SERVE the church, not dictate to the church. They want to embrace technology and allow for diversity. They want a Great Commission denomination, and not a denomination constantly defining loyalty.

This is an interesting point. One of my friends said to me some time ago that he foresees a time when as persecution rises that the importance of denominations will fade as the unity in the body of Christ emerges. I think we all know that persecution would weed out a lot of pseudo-Christians. I know for us at Family Life realizing and clarifying our purpose has payed huge dividends. We exist for one purpose and that is to make disciples of Jesus. Whether or not that includes using a building on Sunday for a traditional service or not, whether that includes a worship team, youth team, drama team matters little when your focus is clear. That is not to knock any of those things but realizing that those things may come and go but our mission and assignment will never fade.

There are many churches where moralism and legalism are heard and the Gospel is obscured. We have insisted on matters of unity that aren’t matters of unity. We’ve pushed our confession to its limits. We’ve treated younger leaders like they had to pass a loyalty test to get in the door.

I haven’t written any posts about the incredible book I read on Holiness by Nancy DeMoss but I realize that in our quest to be holy we have often slipped into what many would call legalism. We must redeem holiness not reject it, we must return to the place where we hate sin the way God hates sin and strive to eradicate it from our hearts and lives. I agree that we must be holy, I strive every day to live a life pleasing before God and we must encourage all who follow to do the same. However, in my humble opinion when I hear the voice of conviction in my life I MUST heed it. Yet at the same time I must restrain myself from trying to take those personal experiences and making them a rule for the masses. When my personal convictions are broadcast to others, I inadvertently teach them to follow me INSTEAD of learning to follow the voice of the Holy Spirit in their own lives. (The above information is NOT referring to clear Scriptural principles.)

We must make sure our message stays focused on the Gospel. Not on stuff that is just not that central.

Southern Baptists are at a Crossroads generation. It’s a time for wisdom, repentance, loving the Gospel and uniting around the mission. God moves and time moves. We must take his hand, and humbly become a Great Commission network for the 21st century.

Well, there it is.

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Crazy Love – Thoughts

September 4, 2009 · 2 Comments

So we are taking our church through Francis Chan’s book Crazy Love. You can find out more details at www.crazylovebook.com. I’m reading the book through for the second time as I prepare for our small groups. There are so many great quotes but also it has inspired some of my own thoughts that I would like to share.

I do desperately want much more of God. I want God first and everything else second. I don’t want to add a sprinkling of God to season my already cooked life.

What I was trying to say by this statement is that so often I find myself trying to add God to the end of a situation rather than acknowledging him throughout the process from it’s inception to completion. I want God to permeate every part of my life. I want his smell and taste to be the predominant flavor. So for me the challenge is to overcome the “spiritual amnesia” that he talks about had live a life fully aware of God’s involvement in my world.

God deserves and demands a relationship with all of me. He is not content with a small fragment of my life or the leftovers others rejected.

I remember a very sad tale in Bible School where I found myself frequently pursuing much lowlier endeavors than the stated purpose. To put it simply, I wanted to find love and companionship as well as learn a little about God. Anyway to make a long story short there were many girls I dreamed of dating. If only…I would think but as Friday night came, I hadn’t asked out any of them but at the very end of the night minutes before it would be too late to go and do something I would call a girl, (I know this is horrible) but she was my fail safe. I knew she would say yes, even if I really wasn’t that interested in her. So I would call her up and she would say yes and we would go have a fun time with friends but sadly I really wasn’t that in to her. Now before you get the wrong idea I treated her with respect and kindness but clearly there could have been so much more.

As I have been pondering my relationship with God I sometimes wonder if he doesn’t fit my story similar to this girl’s. When I find nothing better to do, or no one better to hang out with I call up my trusted friend God for a little conversation and “back up” relationship. As I read Crazy Love and see the hugeness of God, when I see his glory and magnificence I realized just how confused I really am. If I had any sense I would be dropping everything to spend time with what I now take for granted. The truth is God demands this, yeah I know we don’t like “demands” but when you look at the fact that he is our creator he gets to set the expectations. Jesus said the greatest commandment is to love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength. Somehow giving God my leftovers after no one else wants to play doesn’t seem to really fulfill this command.

So today I’m endeavoring to give God my best, my first, my all.

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Family Life Vision

August 30, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Over the past few months we have been working on refining, clarifying the vision God has given us for Family Life. As Andy Stanley said at Catalyst West “Plans change, Vision remains the same.” Simply put our mandate from Scripture is to make disciples of Jesus. Pastor Rob at numerous meetings has been sharing this vision with our church. If you haven’t heard it yet, don’t worry you will, over and over :) . You might just want to start following his blog here. So tonight I woke up with the mantra repeating in my head. Connect. Grow. Serve. Connect. Grow. Serve… these are the processes that everyone who comes in contact with our church should begin and never end.

We want everyone to connect by participating in a weekly weekend service and a weekly midweek small group. The focus of our Weekend Services will be to connect people to God and the focus of our small groups will be to connect people to each other. Then we want everyone to grow, to become true disciples of Jesus. The three areas of growth that every disciple should be progressing in are Family, Finances and Forgiveness. We want every disciple to reflect Jesus in these very personal areas of their life. Lastly we want everyone to serve. We must BE the Body of Christ and we do that by actively serving in the Community and the Church.

Well as I was considering them I began to play with how can we make this easy for everyone to understand, remember and be able to share. So here are a few things I came up with.

Connect to Grow. Grow to Serve. Serve to Connect.

  • Connecting to Believe the Gospel and the Great Commandment
  • Growing to Become disciples of Jesus Christ
  • Serving to Belong in the Body of Christ

Unfortunately I can’t seem to find my little drawing program because I have created three graphics that help me remember the three parts of the vision with the greater content. I will try to add that later.

I will try to use words to describe them.

The first is a Cross (Thanks Joshua Tan) representing the Gospel and the Great Commandment. The Cross represents the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ and it has a vertical piece that represents Loving God, the first and greatest commandment and a horizontal piece that represents Loving Others which is the second commandment.

The second is a tree with fruit representing the growth that accompanies discipleship. The fruit represent Family, Finances, and Forgiveness.

The third is two nail scarred hands facing out. The represent that Family Life is to actually be the hands and feet of Jesus. We are to reach out, extending His love, to the Church and to the Community.

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Culture Unplugged Video

July 21, 2009 · 2 Comments

This movie totally tore me up. We are so detached from reality. In the words of Paul, “in whatever state if find myself. I have learned to be content.” How’s my contentment looking? Not very good.

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On a Journey…

July 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I just read a beautiful story today in Genesis 24 of Abraham’s servant. Abraham commanded him to find a wife for his son, Isaac. The servant prayed to the Lord for guidance and success on his mission. Here are a few quotes from the story “As for me, the Lord has lead me on a journey…” “I praised the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who had led me on the right road…” “Do not detain me, now that the Lord has granted success to my journey.”

What struck me was that he was clear on what his master had asked him to do, but unclear on how that would take place. He prayed for God to guide him on his journey to find the right wife for Isaac. Today at Family Life we are clear on what we need but just like this servant unclear on how God will provide that for us. So let us like the servant of Abraham pray that God will guide us on our search for new facilities to meet in and let us never fail to praise God for the success he grants!

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Obligatory Michael Jackson Post…

June 29, 2009 · Leave a Comment

“What good will it be for you to gain the whole world, yet forfeit your soul? Or what can you give in exchange for your soul?”

Matthew 16:26

I’m one of those tweener’s who is old enough to know that Michael Jackson was huge but not old enough to fully appreciate why. To say I haven’t enjoyed a few of his songs would be a lie. He was obviously a ridiculous talent, I confess it would probably be cool to moonwalk and dance (minus the crotch grabbing.) However my feelings about his death are regret, despair, emptiness and even what a waste. I read this very disturbing article about his final months and I’m thinking really? Is this what we are striving for? I surely hope not!

Somehow it doesn’t strike me that Michael Jackson was sucking the nectar out of life, more like his life was sucking the nectar out of him. I want my life to become more authentic, more genuine, more healthy as I age. MJ’s life seemed headed in the opposite direction.

I know there is much more that could be said but in my opinion if aren’t using your talent for God’s Kingdom then you are wasting it. I know, Ouch!

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